Yahoo! Chat with Days' Patrika Darbo (Nancy) -
April 8, 1999

Patrika: Hello.
Patrika: How are you. I'm in Orlando, Fl, Kevin Spirtas and I are here for the opening of the Titanic Museum.

Bombshell_Bootie asks: Patrika, I love scenes between you, Craig, and Ali. They are so comical, I always laugh so hard, especially latley with Ali acting all Wack-O in the car. What is it like to work with the lady who plays Ali in real life?
Patrika: Lisa Linde is wonderful. She's from Tennessee and I'm from Georgia , so Kevin has been working with two wacky Southern ladies.
Patrika: We try to make everything the best we can by working with each other.

Bombshell_Bootie asks: Hi patrika, congratulations on your SOD award! You really deserved it. I just love to hate you and Craig (your characters of course). Anyways, I just wanted to know if you think you will soften up on Mike since he helped you out during your crisis?
Patrika: No! Mike is a darling,
Patrika: But my husband is my everything.
Patrika: I still want Craig to be chief of staff.

Tracee3694 asks: What was your reaction when you won the award for best newcomer?
Patrika: I was just completely shocked.
Patrika: I totally thought it would be one of the other two ladies.
Patrika: I'm having such a great time in the role.
Patrika: And to be singled out is such an honor.
Patrika: It's such a warm, wonderful feeling. It's very emotional.
Patrika: to have it come from the fans... I can't tell you how important it is to me.

SoapCity_Rose asks: That dress you wore to the Digest awards was FABULOUS!! Who designed it?
Patrika: It was designed by Marcy Meyers, and her company is Christina Covington out of Colorado.
Patrika: If you like her stuff you can reach her at 1-888-ELE-GANS.

rosabellek asks: If you could play any character on DAYS for a day, who would it be and why?
Patrika: Wow... I have so much fun now... I think it would be Stefano.
Patrika: To see how powerful he really is.

applelifesaver asks: Patrika, do you think your character is more for Carrie and Mike or Carrie and Austin?
Patrika: My character is totally for Nancy and Craig.

tooney65 asks: Who is the most unpredictable co-worker at Days?
Patrika: Wow.. I don't have any scenes with him, but Bryan Datillo.
Patrika: He's really out there.
Patrika: He's really wacky about his work, always plalying around. One day he came in wearing an apron. I'm not sure if he was wearing anything underneath, but that's the fun part.
Patrika: Kevin and I have been doing cards that we send out, one Christmas we did a card with Kevin's head coming out from under my dress. But we didn't send that one out.
Patrika: We're kind of unpredictable, I guess.
Patrika: It makes our job so much easier to have fun like that.

rebeccagail_26 asks: is the cancer going to be an issue later in the soap
Patrika: That I cannot answer because I honestly don't know that it will develop into anything other than what it was a couple of weeks ago.

nkelly_1 asks: Do you get to keep the clothes you wear on the show?
Patrika: No, the clothes belong to the show.
Patrika: They do let me borrow things when I want them though.

Awluv54 asks: Do you know how much strength you have given us...the Overweight community... I see you on screen and I am so happy that you are breaking the barrier we are beautiful and talented people and I am grateful for your bravery
Patrika:T hank you. I never entered this role thinking about that.
Patrika: I was totally taken aback when they wanted me on the show.
Patrika: My primary job is to be an actress and to be thought of that way is really, very flattering.
Patrika: It's my responsibility to give back to the audience, and this is one way for me to do so.

Drummergirl_709 asks: Where was your first acting job?
Patrika: Ohh. Let's see now.
Patrika: The first professional job was... I don't remember, hold on.
Patrika: I know it must have been a sitcom, I just can't remember which one.
Patrika: I do know I did Keanu Reeves' first film, The Night Before. It was my first film, too.

BeAuTiFuL_BaBe_4_U_99 asks: Once again, do you enjoy the hair styles they choose for you?
Patrika: Some of them are a bit big, I have a lot of hair.
Patrika: I have 4 or 5 people's hair.
Patrika: Kevin is always joking about the fact that he has to work around my hair.
Patrika: Tell me what you like and don't like and they'll listen.

rosabellek asks: What do you and your husband do on your days off?
Patrika: I take my dogs for long walks. Go up to Santa Barbara.

Snaps34_13 asks: What is Mike Horton really like??
Patrika: Roark is quiet. I don't work a lot with him. He's always on top of the job. He's a professional.
Patrika: I think he's cute as a button, a devoted family man.

chatty0036 asks: Is your husband ever jealous of the sence you play with Kevin
Patrika: My husband knows I love him, so there's nothing to be jealous of.
Patrika: Of course, Kevin and I have gone off together now, so people talk.
Patrika: But marriage is based on trust. My husband has nothing to worry about.

mattdapp asks: Hi Patrika how are you doing whats it like to be famous and a star of days of our lives in America
Patrika: I never think of myself as a star.
Patrika: I think of myself as an actor that is lucky enough to be working.
Patrika: Sandra Bullock is a star.
Patrika: I'm happy to be in your homes each day, and I love the character of Nancy.

Snaps34_13 asks: What about this Bo and Hope/Gina thing?
Patrika: It's a story line that I'm not into. We only get the script that we're in.
Patrika: We never know what's going to happen. I think the writing is ingenius.
Patrika: I don't see much of Kristian until we're working.

suzylynn25 asks: How did you feel when you found out you were cast with kevin spirtas
Patrika: My agent said watch the show today and you'll see who's playing your husband.
Patrika: I leaped across the room to the phone and asked them if they really knew who I was???
Patrika: It's just not heard of for someone like me traditionally to be with such a gorgeous man.
Patrika: What surprised me was that we are all so conditioned to believe only the pretty people do this and the others do that.
Patrika: We have to get rid of that!
Patrika: It's unnecessary discrimination.
Patrika: We're born the way we are. The cruelty is really too bad. We should all be a little more tolerant in this world.
Patrika: I'm not waving a flag, it's just what I believe.

number1_soapFAN asks: I CRIED AT YOUR SOD SPEECH(WHICH I VOTED YOU FOR)! ARE YOU AT ALL INSECURE ABOUT BEING "OVERWEIGHT?"
Patrika: Well, I would be a liar if I said I didn't feel insecure sometimes, but most ot the time, it's not a problem.
Patrika: As an actress, I know that I'm talented or I wouldn't be working.
Patrika: In the moment that everyone is tolerant, then everyone accepts what every one else is.
Patrika: Krista Allen-Morrit sent me flowers on the day of the awards and she was so gracious, so kind, and she's the most beautiful woman. She said Patrika, you are a beautiful person inside and out and don't let anybody ever tell you otherwise.

shmartsy1 asks: What have you learned from working with and watching other actresses that have spent many years on Days?
Patrika: Daytime TV is shot very fast. But I also need to learn to slow down. That's what I've learned, that I can slow down. It has to do with a three camera shoot.
Patrika: Sometimes when working with other actors, you have to take a pause occaisionally in order for things to work out. I've also learned to use the monitors, which show you what you're doing while you working.
Patrika: I have learned a lot of great technical stuff and it really helps.
Patrika: It pays to watch the other actors when they're working.

D_IN_DALLAS32 asks: what do you do to prepare for you scenes?
Patrika: Because we get new scripts so fast, what I try to do is read over it a few hundred times.
Patrika: I am the kind of actor that likes to get to know the story and then it makes it easier to work with the material.
Patrika: I learn the lines verbatim, and then we dive into the work.
Patrika: I try to get to the set early and we run the lines with the other actors.

Crimson_Cowl asks: Patrika, you're awesome! You stand out as my fave DAYS character! I know about Nancy, but what about you? What kind of music do you like? What are some of your favorite TV shows? Congrats on the award :)
Patrika: I like country music, I like musical comedy stuff from theatre.
Patrika: Big band is a blast.
Patrika: ER is a great show, NYPD Blue, The Practice.
Patrika: And I love Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
Patrika: I think it has the most wonderful writing. They hit some great points with teenagers.
Patrika: They're very clever.

shmartsy1 asks: Did you ever watch Days before you joined the show? Were you familiar with any of the supercouples? If so what is it like now to watch it from a new perspective?
Patrika: I really never watched any particular soap.
Patrika: I did know Deidre Hall, and Bo and Hope were familiar terms to anyone.
Patrika: It was interesting to meet Deidre, Peter, and Kristian.

crafter204 asks: if you weren't an actress, what would you be doing?
Patrika: I'd be dead.
Patrika: I think that is a hard question. If I wasn't acting, I don't know what I'd do.
Patrika: If you're miserable doing what you're doing, stop it! Go do what you really want to do.
Patrika: Life is too short to not do what you want to do.

TyroneusD asks: I saw you in "Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil," how was working with Clint Eastwood?
Patrika: It was terrific. First of all, he's an icon.
Patrika: He's been through every medium.
Patrika: Actor, director.
Patrika: He's incredible.
Patrika: Garden of Good and Evil was funny because he always had such a laid-back way of working, but everyone worked really hard.
Patrika: He's always well prepared. He knows what he wants.
Patrika: He also know's how to tell you what he wants.

TyroneusD asks: Do you feel like daytime's answer to Cameron Manheim from "The Practice?"
Patrika: Wow, that is such a compliment. Ultimately it's a wonderful thing. We can say that we have a large woman in daytime and a large woman in nighttime.
Patrika: She's got a book coming out that I'm going to get.
Patrika: I'd love to work with her.
Patrika: She seems like a wonderful woman.

BeAuTiFuL_BaBe_4_U_99 asks: Why did Franco leave? Was it just because they needed him to die?
Patrika: Again, I'm not sure. I'm pretty sure they needed it to happen to have the story go forward.
Patrika: I'm still in the dark too.
Patrika: I never know what's going to happen.

CherryLynn13 asks: who has been your favorite actress/actor to work with throughout your career?
Patrika: Beau Bridges.
Patrika: He was the first major star I worked with.
Patrika: I had done a play, Daddy's Dyin', Who's Got the Will. I did it for two years in LA for no money.
Patrika: It was so popular, we were asked to go to Europe.
Patrika: Then it was made into a movie, and Beau played opposite me.
Patrika: He does the same work when the camera is on him as when it's off.

KimKixx asks: Besides for Step By Step, what other have you been on??
Patrika: Roseanne, Sisters, practically every show you can name.
Patrika: The only show I haven't done is ER. Oh, and Chicago Hope.
Patrika: Now that I'm working so much, I don't know when I'll have the time to do extra work.
Patrika: I would love to be in ER, though. I think David Kelly is brilliant, so I'd love to work on The Practice again.

Starla05 asks: Nancy did u ever meet a famous person that u like growing up? do u get noticed walking down the street?
Patrika: Two people I met growing up. One was an old baseball player named Moe Berg. He was a spy for the US and a very interesting fellow.
Patrika: I met him through my step dad because he was in baseball.
Patrika: And Henry Aaron. Amazing.

nativeangel00 asks: Patrika,on Roseanne didn't you almost have an affair with Dan?
Patrika: Dan would have these dreams that he was having an affair. They were dreams.

pittbulls99 asks: now that baseball is back on the field.....who is your favorite baseball team?
Patrika: Gosh, I don't really watch baseball so I'd have to go with LA... the Dodgers.

number1_soapFAN asks: HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT MANY PEOPLE SAYING THAT YOU SHOULD OF BEEN NOMINATED FOR AN EMMY??
Patrika: Again, I thank those people, and if it's meant to be, it will be. I try not to go coulda woulda shoulda.
Patrika: I can't dwell on that, I just have to go out there and do my work.

coolgirl88888888 asks: What time do you have to get up in the morning to go to the set of the show???
Patrika: Again, it depends on the call time. Sometimes I have to be there at 6 in the morning.
Patrika: Other times I'm there at 1 p.m.
Patrika: Sometimes we're there until 11 p.m.

AngelicDestinie asks: Who is your all time hero or role model?
Patrika: That's such a hard question, but I'd have to think it would be Elizabeth Glaser.
Patrika: She was really an amazing woman. She'd been through so much and she still moved forward with such strength.
Patrika: She started the Pediatric AIDS foundation.

PatrikaFan asks: Hello, Patrika!!! I just wanted to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Did you have a great time celebrating your birthday Tuesday???
Patrika: I had to work. But thank you very much.
Patrika: I'm going to celebrate next week.

TyroneusD asks: Do you have any pets? I bet you're a cat person.
Patrika: I'm a dog person.
Patrika: But lets put it this way, I like cats and dogs. I'm an animal person.
Patrika: I have a Cairn Terrier and his name is Rocky.
Patrika: He'll be thirteen in June. He's a diabetic, with a heart problem, one eye, takes heart medicine and doesn't think anything is wrong with him.
Patrika: Rocky lost the eye from diabetes.
Patrika: The other dog is a Shepherd/Lab/Akita/Chow. She looks like a big gold German Shepherd.
Patrika: Her name is Shooter.
Patrika: I rescued her when I did the film Daddy's Dyin'.
Patrika: She's a beautiful dog.

PetraF56 asks: What nationality is Patrika??
Patrika: Darbo is an Irish name.
Patrika: My mother didn't want Patricia, so she picked Patrika.

Bradybaby84 asks: How do you think Nancy will feel if her husband does get the Chief of Staff job?
Patrika: She'll feel satisfied and then start thinking what the next best thing for him to do.

girl_007_pez asks: i know this isnt about you acting carreer, (which is great, but)i have wanted to be a actress for so long, but im 13 and live in minnesota, any idvice on getting a job on a movie or t.v???????
Patrika: Be sure you finish school first. But specialize. I still take classes now. There are a lot of commercials shot in Minnesota, a lot of work can be had.
Patrika: First of all talk to your mom and dad, 'cause being a minor you have to have a guardian with you all the time.
Patrika: You can call the local Unions, SAG or AFTRA, or find an agent that's local.
Patrika: You really have to make sure your parents are willing to do that kind of work.
Patrika: Write to me at DAYS and I'll give you some more info.

VanSpike asks: What is your most memorable event at Days so far and who do you like best to work with?
Patrika: We were told that we were going to be jumping out a window and I told the crew to make it "big enough for my butt".
Patrika: It was really very funny.
Patrika: But jumping through the window was a blast.
Patrika: On the day that we jumped through the window, we were rehearsing and I watched someone jump out of the window, then I went up and jumped out the window.
Patrika: But they weren't ready for me to jump.
Patrika: so everyone was amazed.
Patrika: They call me "FEARLESS" out there now.
Patrika: Anyway, that was the most fun thing to do.
Patrika: Goodbye everyone. Goodnight, and thank you again for voting for me.
Patrika: Look for something exciting. We're going to Las Vegas and something exciting will happen.




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